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Speeding through

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-31 - 11:34:11

Another quick hello,but only because I have the day off to try and sort some stuff out. Apparently things are not going to be sorted anytime soon,so it looks like this is going to be the way things are for a little while. I may be moving soon and that may solve some of the problems. Hope everyone is ok,looking forward to reading loads when I get back properly.;)

Have been taking lots of walks in this brilliant sunshine. And have been spending time just chilling out on the riverbank,while studying of course, sunshine,glass of wine cool breeze off the river and the books. Heaven :)

I have finally got my contract negotiated and signed,to the satisfaction of all. So things are not all bad;)

Did some shopping,new shoes,new dress, spent too much but hey,you only live once right;)

Behave yourselves while I am gone.Dont do anything I wouldn`t do;)
Love to allxx

Flying visit

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-29 - 10:40:43

Hi Just a flying visit to let you know that I am alive and kicking still. Sorry I have not been able to answer comments and read posts etc. I am unable to get on line at the moment for more than a short while maybe once or twice a week. Hopefully the situation will be sorted by wed and I will be back with you all. I am sure that most of you haven`t even noticed my absence ;)

Hope you are all still enjoying the sunshine and life itself.

The one good thing about not being able to get on line is that I have been doing things I haven`t done in a long while,like today when I wandered around town and sat in the town hall square for a while drinking take away coffee and enjoying the sunshine ( and the little old dears that seem to make it their place to sit there forever? ) I have a brand new computer arriving next week,not that I will be able to use it if this situation is not sorted out * sigh*.

Those things that I said came in fours actually managed to come in sixes and I have only had two good to offset them. One being paid more than I expected from work and two my new comp.

Never mind such is life and somewhere along the line something will come along to make up for it.
Take care and be happy to all my friends out there and everyone else;)

Wednesdays wanderings

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-26 - 06:55:18

A cool wed morning and a nice refreshing walk by the river. Its so low at the moment you could practically walk out to the little island in the middle.  Still there is rain promised over the next few days. Thunderstorms and flooding,well isn`t that what monsoons are about?

In Singapore the rains when they came were so torrential the storm drains couldn`t hold them. And they were not always cooling either,hot rain,but too heavy to go out in.  And the smell afterwards would depend on what part you were in,some parts the smell was of  rotting vegetation that had been ruined in the rains. In other parts it would be that sweet smell of fresh earth that usually follows the rain. 
The beach would be full of driftwood and anything else the sea might have felt like throwing there. The sea was rarely angry,the people would get worried if the sea appeared to be angry, very superstitous people the Malayans.

Its a shame that I can only remember bits from when we were there,though I remember the smell of the spices from the street markets,mingled with the smell from the sea and the tropical forest.   I expect it is gone now since they have built along the beach for holiday makers. Which would be a shame. I never got to explore that,I was too young and there were supposedly big cats in there,though I think that maybe they were just saying that to stop the boys going in and getting lost.

The walk this morning of course was nothing like that,though the heat we have been having may have been tropical there was no white gold beach.  Though the smell of rotting vegetation wasn`t far off!

The only thing that came close to spoiling the walk was the beer cans and the wine bottles strewn along certain parts of the bank. Seems the town winos dont clean up after themselves. They would get jailed for that in Singapore.

And another day of  work ahead. I shall be going in early today and working late.  The penalties of being the only one that can do the work needed,and there seems to be quite a bit of it to do.

It might be cloudy but it is still warm. So shower time and ready for the long day ahead.

I saw this laying around,and sort of borrowed it * Cough*

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-24 - 19:40:17

From the Supersexy CJ;)

I'm going to try and resurrect an old Blog game... D'you remember when...?

If you read this, if your eyes are passing over this right now, (even if we don't speak often) please post a comment with a COMPLETELY MADE UP AND FICTIONAL memory of you and I.

It can be anything you want- BUT IT HAS TO BE FAKE.

When you're finished, post this little paragraph on your blog and pretend to be surprised (or mortified) about what people DON'T ACTUALLY remember about you.

Normal service is resumed

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-24 - 07:23:53

Well almost anyway.
Having had a very unproductive weekend and veering from frustration to despair,I think I have finally got this essay licked. Though I am going to lose points for it going in late,despite an extension. At 4-30 this morning I was ready to throw the towel in and give up.But I have never been a quitter so it will get there if it kills me. And at this rate it probably will. Maybe I am just not as clever as I thought?

Anyway tis monday again and another week of work and all that jazz. It also,according to the experts at the national weather center, promises to be another hot one. I might be daring and wear a skirt again at some point this week. Though twice might just be pushing it;)

For those that have had problems accessing my blog it appears I have solved the problem,thanks to AJ and his advice and helpful tips.Hopefully the powers that be will investigate the problems of uploading music and sort it out. We didn`t have these problems before the supposed upgrade.

There seems to be many problems with the new editor,one of which being that it is difficult to cut and paste into it. Having got into the habit of writing all my posts in word and then C&P`ing them into blog because of its little trick of going down every time you click save and losing the whole shebang,I am dissapointed to find that I am unable to use the new editor if I wish to do that. It still works on the old editor though.

Right time to shower and prepare for work,have a good day and be happy;)

Not three but Four!

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-23 - 02:19:43

It has been a strange day. Not a very good one either. I thought that bad things were supposed to come in threes,but apparently in my case they forgot the golden rule. The junior cyclone picks today to be his most obnoxiuos,my darling son and his soon to be missus ( Note the sarcasm ) decides that it is fine to not bother to come and pick him up untill after three,despite my telling them I need to study and have an essay to do which has to be done for tomorrow night. Plus saturday is the only day I get to do any other kind of shopping besides food shopping. Which,despite saying several times I have to go shopping they still didn`t make a move untill after four.

Which brings me to number three,my fridge/freezer is playing a little game called I will defrost everything and then refreeze it just for fun,constantly. Apparently it is knackered     broken,and I have just lost everything in there,as even though it is frozen now I dont know if it is any good. I went to get some ice-cream to find it completely melted. Then when I went back in to show my son it was frozen again. So I have had to throw the lot out. The one good thing is that I never switched the other fridge/freezer off because I dont like that smell when they are stood after being switched off,and son being his normal ' I promise to do it,but it could be six months before I do' self it is still in the pantry. The bad thing being the littleextra money I got that I was going to treat myself with has now had to be used to restock what was an almost full freezer.

And now my computer is playing games too,fading in and out as I am writing so I have to keep clicking the mouse to bring it back in order to type.

Is it time to hibernate yet???????

Lets get rocked!

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-22 - 13:57:22

Sat here trying to study,I decided to drown out the constant noise from the Junior Cyclone by indulging in some music of a loud nature.

And then decided to share at least one track with you guys ;)


And now...

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-22 - 08:49:29

Years ago I dreaded the weekends. The coming of Thursday meant that friday was around the corner and I waited with bated breath for that telegram that meant the Male Parent was not coming home for the weekend.

I am sure the young guy that delivered the Telegrams thought I had a crush on him,which in a way I did. When he came on a Wed he brought money,for food and of course it also meant that Mother would be out again. But when he came on a Thursday,it was so much more,it meant a peaceful  ( Well as peaceful as it got)  weekend,and I could breath easy for another week. We got to know the young guy really well,I was devastated when he emigrated to Australia with his family,he was the only person at that time that treat me as an intelligent individual.

And the summer.I dreaded the summertime. School holidays meant we were all together,and it also meant that the Male Parent had two and three weeks at home at one time. I loved September because it not only meant that I would get at least a month in school it also meant normal routines were resumed.

I left school earlier than I should at fifteen,the school board deciding that as I hadn`t bothered attending on a regular basis since I first started there was no point in me staying. They were under the impression that I was a sickly and then rebellious child,they were wrong on both counts.

The Male Parent was very good at presenting to the outside world this picture of a wonderful Parent and family/home life. He was well liked and respected,a fine upstanding figure in the community. People never looked beyong the facade he wore, he was a ' Proper Gentleman'  always tipped his hat to the ladies,opened doors,was a willing participant in arranging and organising events for the children in the area,excluding his own of course,well at least one of them.

Now I love weekends. Even if I do have to spend half the time studying,at least it is my choice. Knowing that I have two whole days where I can do what I please,and not have to worry about time lines and schedules,again apart from the study,but that is choice.
I love the summertime,wandering in the woods or by the river. In fact I love any time of year really,apart from April and Christmas.
I love watching the seasons change,the myriad of colours each one brings,the subtle changes right at the beginning of each season change.
I just love being alive,as hard as it is sometimes,as many obstacles as it likes to throw in my path. And I look back on the time when I was just that little bit too cowardly to step out in front of that car on the way home from school,just so I wouldn`t have to face what was waiting,and I think that I wouldn`t be who I am if it wasn`t for who I was.

The sun is shining and the weekend stretches before me. And I shall now resume the studying,break over;)

I am Bereft

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-21 - 23:29:16

I cant believe what I have just seen,I am in shock. everything I have ever believed in is torn asunder,my whole life is built on a..a..lie  I dont wish to upset you poor people out there but I have seen it with my own eyes  it was horrible,gut wrenching. I am sat there saying ..No..No it cant be.. I have just seen the Fonz,the coolest guy ever  commit...Fraud...Attempted Murder...Conspiracy to Murder..and..and Bigamy.. Sob,my life will never be the same again 

Lets do Dinner,shall we?

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-21 - 19:25:36

Ok this is quite simple. It is Dinner party time. As with all good hosts/Hostesses we have to have an even number,unlike all good hosts/hostesses they do not have to be equal in gender.
The Minimum number is eight.
You are allowed to have
Blog Friends or real friends  2 or 3 of
The rest of your dinner Party is to be made up from people that you  would like to have a conversation with from public life,these can be anyone from politics to artists and can be dead or alive. The idea being that just for that one night anyone you admired from history will be alive and sat at your table.

My Dinner Party Guests and reasons

Paddy...Goes without saying
AnnMarie...My best friend,because I know that the people I am going to choose she would love to talk to as well.

Leonardo Da Vinci....I want to ask him how he managed to draw a submarine and a helicopter hundreds of years before they were invented?

John F Kennedy..This guy rocked,behind the pretty playboy front this guy was a serious politician,he knew things. I would just love to debate with this guy.

Martin Luther King..... I want to talk to this guy because I want to look through his eyes,just for a short while.

Marylin Monroe...If I can stop her and JFK flirting  long enough,This  was one hell of a lady,I would love to talk with the real person inside.

Stephen King....He writes some damn good books,should be interesting to talk with this guy.

And last but by no means least

John Pilger....I adore this guy,I love his work,I am right now trying to obtain a copy of his book 'Freedom next time'  This is one guy that I know would make an interesting dinner guest.

Right, you know what to do. So come on plan your dinner party;)

Just rambling as usual

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-21 - 07:48:07

I went for a walk last night. Nowhere speacial. I went to the supermarket first to get a few bits I needed and then,after depositing those in the apartment, I went for a little wander.  mainly to clear my head for the heavy duty studying/writing of essays this weekend.

Sometimes when I am looking at places,I can see them as they were,as well as how they are now. Its like superimposing one image on top of the other. There have been so many changes since I arrived in this Town,and I look at it and wonder if it has improved it any? In some ways it has,advancement and change is good for a community. But in other ways it hasn`t. Modern buildings can look so ugly stood next to the graceful lines of  Edwardian and Victorian Architecture. So cold,and sharp.

Where I used to live still has some of the old cobbled streets from yesteryear. And as lovely as they are to look at,they are treacherous in winter. And why do people insist on painting their houses that mucky cream colour? I suppose it is better than pink,and yes someone did!

The town while in parts has improved with the modernisation,in others where they have ripped down the old churches and put up office blocks,I cannot call that an improvement.

A few years ago they wanted to build a bypass from our town to the next major town and they decided that they were going to put it through the middle of the woods. Yes the very woods where I wander. We argued with them,but they were determined,then through a bit of digging we discovered who actually owned that land. We had always been told that it was basically free land,the council said it was theirs,therefore they could build a road if they wished. Well it happened that it belonged to a Duke.The Duke of Devonshire?  So the people that lived there wrote to him.

We didn`t hold out much hope,the Duke was renowned for selling his land off for roads and office blocks. But as it happened the old Duke no longer had it,his son did. The new Duke had apparently stopped the selling off of land and had instead been replanting the land that they owned with new trees,fencing it off and planting huge feilds full of trees. Way to go Dukey!!

He not only saved the woods,but replanted the feilds below it with new trees. He sent in experts who thinned out the woods and took away all the very old diseased trees,they built a picnic area at the top of the woods,and while his improvements were in some ways good,it was hard seeing the old woods being transformed this way. Strange thing was he never touched the bottom part of the woods,where it overgrows so much in the summer you need to fight your way through as in a jungle. I wonder if he saw the deer there and thats why he left it?  Whatever his reason,I and many others now have a new ( not so new now mind) and an old part to wander in,and that can only be good.

Of course the world must advance,there is no point in standing still,but not all change is good or even nice. Now they have preservation orders on some of the old buildings,for instance the one I live in,while the landlord was allowed to do as he pleased inside the building,the outside had to remain as it was,we are not allowed,tv ariels,sky dishes or any other attachment on the front of the building. No new fancy double glazed windows,or anything else that would change it in anyway.  Sadly a lot of the nicest buildings had already fallen under the demolition bulldozers and been replaced with carparks and office blocks,some of which now stand empty and awaiting demolition themselves.
Its nice to remember things as they were sometimes,it can make you view the here and now a little differently.

And it is Friday,again. still warm but a tad cooler today. Who cares it is the Weekend;)

A rambling I shall go.

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-20 - 19:33:33

Half a day off today as those that were around this morning can testify;) Sure made up for it when I went back to work though.  The damn phone never stopped.
I had one doozy of a mess to sort out.
 
Last week I got a client a really good settlement, yesterday he got a call from a completely different creditor saying that they now had the account and they wanted a thousand pounds more. He rang me upset. I rang the original creditor,no they said the account was still theirs and they hadn`t sold it on,the settlement stood. I rang the client and he paid it.

This afternoon I gets a v/m from the new creditor that had rung the client yesterday.I rung them back. They told me it was thier account and that they would not accept the settlement as they had only bought this account a month ago. I told them he didn`t have anymore money than that. they came down a bit,made other offers. I was not happy,so I said  I shall call the original creditors this gentleman has just paid them a lot of money and this is not his fault. the person agreed and asked me to phone them back.

I call the original creditors and gets to speak to the guy I spoke to yesterday. I explained the conversation to him and said right so what are you going to do about this? He said I will call you back I need to take this higher. And he did bless him. As far as the original creditors were concerned my client has paid and thats it finished. They would guarantee that the debt was wiped and would make sure he got papers saying so. Right I said you deal with xxxx  and gave him a phone number and contact name. I left them slugging it out and rang the client and informed him it is all over he is free of debt. It doesn`t matter now who made the almighty **** up, thats down to them to sort out between them.

Then got a woman whose creditor was taking her to court,papers served and everything, a 50% settlement on that,thereby stopping court proceedings.

And talked to a sweet lady who has been ill in hospital and is being bullied by not one but three Bailiffs at once,come on guys. three of you?!! And you didn`t show identification,Tut,Tut you should know better,guess who has been reported then? ;)  They work in the Midlands for anyone who wants to know,and here is me telling people that Baillifs are great people and always willing to be nice!! Seems that there are always exceptions

Very busy afternoon and now I have people telling me they cannot access my blog? Seems quite a few can though so it may just be a Gliche and we are all  used to those :))

In the interests of research

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-20 - 09:35:13

Purely in the interests of research into the evil listy thingy ;) Borrowed * cough* from old-niq

Home

Does your house have-

A drawer so full of crap that it is hard to open and shut?
Yep,it has my sons stuff in it.

An unnecessarily large number of empty carrier bags inside one another stashed somewhere?
Nope,carrier bags go in da bin!

A nice view?
Of the Tax office across the road,but if I look out sideways I can see the trees in Morrisons carpark :))

A room set aside for something you enjoy?
All the rooms are mine therefore that applies in all of them;)

A room set aside for all the crap too big to go in the drawer?
I have boxes of the sons stuff in a corner of the bedroom. Oh and stuff stored in what was the pantry.

Something about which you have been saying “I must fix that at the weekend” for over 6 months?
No,its usually only six weeks

Work.

Does your workplace have-

Air-conditioning?
Hehehe,does a fan in the corner count?

Heating?
Same fan turned to hot?

A member of staff on a diet?
I work with women,what do you think?

A member of staff with a drink problem?
Read the above

A member of staff that is universally hated?
Again!

A member of staff that is lusted after by the opposite sex in the office?
LOL,isn`t there always

A member of staff lusted after by the same sex workers in the office?
Read the above

A jobsworth in blue serge on the front door?
No we dont have one of them.

Friends.

Do you have-

A Friend you keep meaning to contact, but never do?
I keep in touch with my friends as much as possible.

A friend who should know better yet you keep going and helping them out of the latest crap fest they got themselves into?
Oh yes!

A friend who is a bit of a liability in polite company?
Same one

A friend who keeps making you think-“Why do I still talk to you”?
Again

A friend who makes you smile, even when they are not there?
Yes,several,but a couple especially so.

A friend only you can see?
How did you know about him?:roll:

A stranger

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-20 - 07:57:20

A stranger called today,asked if we could meet
Made me remember the Café down the street.
His laughing eyes,his handsome face
His presence used to fill this place
And the things he used to say
The stranger who called today.

A stranger called today,it wasn`t always so
I have seen him laugh,seen his face glow
Seen him cry and held his head
Shared my home,shared my bed.
Shared the sorrows,shared the play
But,it was a stranger called today.

A stranger called today,asked if I was fine
Made me remember when he was mine.
Days that never seemed to end
A sweet lover,a sweeter friend
How they both went away
And it was a stranger called today.

A stranger called today,it`s been a long time
I said I was good,everything was fine.
I no longer feel, lost and blue
I don’t even think of you
And now you will always stay
The Stranger, who called today.

Listy thingy nicked from Snail ( Who nicked it from,and they nicked it from.....)

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-20 - 06:32:06

I have been resisting this list ever since it came out but, I have succumbed. ( Its that Snails fault )

1. How do you like to be kissed?
Hmmm Its been that long I have forgotten:)) Seriousley,errm gently and tenderly I think,well to start with anyway;)

2. If you could visit your 18-year-old self what advice would you give them?
DONT DO IT!!! Seriously,nothing. Whats meant is meant ( Though I would tell her not to leave things so long before she gets a life;) )

3. What was the best present that you ever received?
Life

4. What are you most afraid of?
Falling in Love

5. What do you most desire?
Health,Wealth and Happiness,dont we all?

6. Would you spend the night alone in a haunted room?
without hesitation

7. Have you ever nearly died?
Several times

8. Would you be afraid to swim at nightime?
IF I could swim,no,I love the night, I am a night creature

9. Do you do the right thing even when you hurt yourself?
I have to agree with Snails answer here,you never hurt yourself if you do the right thing.

10. Are you in love?
That would be telling;)

11. Is sex overated?
Ummm,Whats Sex?

12. Can you keep secrets?
I have to be able to,its my job.

13. Did you choose the life you lead?
We all choose the lives we lead,even though we might not think so;)

Half way through

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-19 - 07:06:30

Half way through the week already,where does the time go? Today is set to be the hottest day since 1911,you know I am sure they said the very same thing a few years ago? Must have been one wowzer of a summer that year.

Considering that the first four years of my life were spent in a country where this heat is normal you would think that I would welcome it. I dont mind it,unlike a lot of people I dont allow myself to sit out in it for hours on end and go brown or red ( As most english/british people seem to do) I value the skin I`m in too much for that. And though it promises to be the hottest day,it is actually slightly cooler here,but that could be that lovely breeze thats coming through my window.

I have joined in the blogathon that is going to be run on the 29th July by sponsoring Paddy and Jake you can do the same by going here  http://jakeandsarah.blog.co.uk  or for Paddy http://gaybutnotwelsh.blog.co.uk  or you can click on their links and  choose to take part yourself. This is in aid of childline and if any of you have read my debate blog you will know the wonderful and crucial work that this organisation does. The statistics on there are to be updated today and there will be a link so you can see the new childline adverts showing children that used childline and why.
I have had a few mails from the NSPCC who gave me a direct link for the statisitics and who are sending me posters and case studies. When the case studies arrive I will post them for you on the Debate blog. They also have a link to the Debate blog so they can see how well people have responded to this cause.

And on to,it is almost time for me to go get my shower and get ready for work. So be careful out there today,heat kills,make sure you drink plenty of water,and dont stay out in it too long. Stay safe be happy ;)

Just

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-18 - 22:32:21

So as predicted it has been a long day. Now I am hot and tired. Its not been the best of days. though not the worst either. Time for some reading and relaxing,maybe tonight I will sleep?

Morning already?

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-18 - 06:48:56

There is something so ethereal about the river covered in mist as the sun rises,little wisps of silvery grey curling round your legs as you walk. Like a fine carpet so soft and deep your feet dissapear into its depths. The cuckoo kept me company this morning,which I suppose was quite apt.

Did you know that the coldest time of day is the hour before dawn? And even that was warm. That last hour of night,before the sun raises its sleepy head and says hello to the world.
In spectacular fashion this morning,no clouds to kiss,it instead streaked the sky with a myriad of colours,from the faintest blush pink to the deepest rose red.even the moon was enchanted and didn`t want to go to bed. Instead it hung about to watch its sister paint the morning sky and light the world below,retiring only when dawn was done and the sun had stopped hiding behind the hills like a shy debutante,and was shining in all her glory.

Mama duck and the little ones went to visit the other mama ducks and their little ones,and before long there was quite a family meeting. All serene and peaceful untill I threw the bread I had with me,in no time at all I was surrounded by ducks wanting the big bit. They even followed me when the bread was done and I was moving on to another spot. ducklings are so funny,they spread their little wings that are no more than little stumpy things and run at everything. A sort of wobbly rush,which usually has them falling over and then getting up and carrying on.

The day promises to be a long one,probably because the last one doesn`t seem to have finished yet. Now shall I be really daring and wear a skirt? Is the world ready for me in a skirt? Hmmmm,maybe not;)

Evening Time

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-17 - 20:50:35

Isn`t the weather heavenly? Who needs to pay all that money to go to the Med when we are having their weather? In a few years it will be Costa`La bognor.  Better clean the beaches up guys,we is going to get busy.

It has been a strange day,one of those days which are not good,nor bad,perhaps a bit of both. So much to do and it feels like you are getting nowhere.

I am now an official member of the work force on a permanent basis,though we still have the actual contract signing to do,the important stuff  was done today,you know the taking of bank details for the wages to be paid into;)

Got my last pay cheque from the agency and with it a little surprise,because I had been with them for so long and worked all bank holidays barring one they have given me holiday pay,I was supposed to take lue days apparently but I didn`t so I got paid instead. And they paid me early because of a mix up with work I had to take my copy timesheet in,and they paid me there and then.

I have been in a silly mood all day,its the heat I tell ya! Actually I am full of cold which is just like me   I even chatted to the IT guy at the crisp and chocolate machine. For some reason the machine wouldn`t take his money,so I put a coin in for him,it wouldn`t take that,then he put his coin back in and it took it,I said look my coin woke it up. He just laughed and said that he wasn`t sure he was hungry anymore. I get the feeling he doesn`t like me very much, always seems to want to get away in a hurry?

And now to the evening. It is still very hot,but there is a nice cool breeze blowing through my very wide open window. I have been very good and managed nearly a whole chapter,but now it is break time as the words are starting to fuse together on the page,and ice cream I think. I have just discovered that new Greek honey and yoghurt flavour,and as I am an avid lover of Greek honey,need I say more;)

I can see clearly now...

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-17 - 07:12:16

So here we are again Monday morning,am I the only person that thinks the weekend goes too fast? Back to work and all that noise.  Let me enlighten,we are having a massive refurb at work.
In order to accomodate all the new call center staff they are having to completely alter upstairs where the call center is,by taking out all the walls and making it one big room instead of one big room and several offices. This is good because it means that clients calls will get answered faster and there will be more trained people to do this. So while they are doing this refurb, they have moved admin to a new block next door and brought the call center downstairs into the admin/legal room.
They brought me downstairs and amalgamated me with legal to get me away from the call center noise?
This refurb is great,except he is building a whole new call center on the outskirts of town. Now that will be fun.

I shall be going into work today and signing my new contract,it is going to make life difficult for a while,because of cut off days and monthly pay but I will survive somehow.

I shall also be asking for a week off,at the end of september beginning of October so I can revise for my exam on the 9th october,and then I have another  exam on the 20th October,its all go;)

It is another beautiful day,they have threatened temps of 30,but if you want Med temps then hop on a train to wales where the temps are going to be 36-39 Wed/Thurs.  Paddy!! you`re getting visitors;)

Think it is time AJ and I invested in that Hotel we been talking about;)

Nicking things again.

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-16 - 16:51:08

OK I am bored, its break time,this listy thing was nicked from Sminchin,who nicked it from Adorable AJ;)

Trivial Pursuit - Is there one thing you don't know that a blogger could answer for you?
Yes

Connect Four - Are there three (non-blog) friends you couldn't live without?
This is going to sound awful,but no,I wouldn`t want to be without them,but I could if I had to.

Monopoly - If you could start your own business, what would it be?
Detective agency

Cluedo - How suspicious are you of people?
Very,hence the above :))

Scrabble - What's your full name (including middle names) worth in Scrabble? Find out here http://www.solfire.com/scrabble/
33

Risk - What's the biggest risk you've ever taken?
Bringing up my children on my own.

Frustration - What's your biggest irritation(s)?
Intolerance

Operation - What's been your worst injury?
Hmm,thats hard,damaging two vertebrae in my spine.

Chess - Which do you trust more, head or heart?
My head its not as impulsive ( besides I dont have one of those other things;) )

Game of Life - What one thing would you like to do in life?
Go to America

Evil workings

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-16 - 13:14:29

Hehehehe now you know how I got my job;)

I got an Evil Rating of 85 and got the job!

Are you evil enough to

Sunny Sunday

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-16 - 07:43:21

Sunday morning. I appear to have arisen with a cold. This is apparent in the sore,dry throat,the sniffling and the constant sneezing,not to mention the thudding head and bleary eyes. I thought at first it was hay fever but the anti-histamines are not removing it so it definately looks like a cold. Ah well the best way to deal with a cold is to work it off,so looks like a busy day.

I watched a programme last night,fictional but as with most American police/forensics programmes nowadays more than a touch of reality is portrayed in them. This one was about Elder abuse. I may have mentioned before that I have studied Elder abuse, I did it as part of my NVQ in nursing care. At that time I worked in a private nursing home,and we also did respite care,giving those that looked after their parents/grandparents a break once every so many months. This was what got me into Elder abuse in the first place,it was only natural that I study it to find out the whys and wherefores.

Can you imagine taking a cigarette and deliberatly stubbing it out on a person,an old or very young person? Elder abuse is no different to child abuse,in effect most of the old people that are abused are very childlike. They are usually suffering from some kind of dementia. This does not just happen with home carers, though it does seem to be those that are targeted. There is abuse going on in many nursing/care homes. While the majority of nurses/carers are good at their job and do genuinely care for the people that are placed with them. There are those that are the opposite,it is just a job,and they are the ones in charge.

Old people can be very cantankerous,and when they have dementia they can be many times worse. The problem is that with dementia they are confused and they dont often have short term memory,so in effect they dont know you from one day to the next,only with repetition do they get to know that you are there often. Sometimes when they have had a stroke they lose the ability to speak very well. It has always fascinated me how this is connected to them no longer being able to think? Just because someone can no longer speak does not mean that the mind is not still working.

A case in point. I looked after a lady,she bit and scratched when the staff tried to wash and dress her,when they tried to toilet her,when they tried to bath her. The only time she didn`t bite or scratch or spit,was when she was being given afternoon tea. They assigned her to me ( They always gave me the difficult ones) I spent a week observing her,and then took over. She scratched me only once and she never bit me. Why was she different? Because I asked her if she wanted me to wash her or if she wanted to do it. I explained to her what I was doing if I had to do anything before I did it. I brought clothes from the wardrobe and let her choose what she was going to wear that day. Often talking her round to something else if the clothes didn`t match and would have looked wrong together. The point is I did not just do things. It was quite simple really. She lashed out because she was scared and humiliated. Once it was put on her notes how she was to be treat,anyone could look after her and she was a sweetheart.
The problem is that it should be common courtesy to do these things as a matter of course.
OK down off the soapbox.

It looks like today promises to be as beautiful as yesterday,and if they come and pick up the Junior Cyclone early enough I might get to go study outdoors for a while. And if not well I will probably get more done by staying in.

Right break over back to it;) I hope you all enjoy your Sunday.

Break time

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-15 - 19:54:39

Taking a break,I have taken a couple throughout the day,but not long enough to do anything really constructive like blog;)
Somehow my weekend off has become just a night off,as my son has gone out for the night. He says that he told me/asked me,but he didn`t,I had told him I was pleased I was not babysitting this weekend because of having such a heavy study schedule and he had agreed that I could spend the two days on that. So no way did he ask me to have him.
So we had words and I told him that he didn`t seem to be taking seriously what I was doing,as it didn`t seem to bother him that I couldn`t concentrate when I had the child,and that was one of the reasons I was behind with my studies. It ended up with me saying that if they didn`t start picking him up at a more reasonable time,like before twelve as opposed to three and four in the afternoon,I would stop having him despite needing the money. He was in a mood when he left,and she said oh great looks like I`m in for a good night,so I said to be honest I dont really care you are both taking advantage so you are both to blame. So she isn`t happy with me either:( Ah well,these things need saying sometimes.

Its been a lovely day and on one of my breaks I went for a wander in town,it was fairly quiet,everyone must have done their shopping this morning and gone off or having BBQ`s this aft. And I dont blame them.
Its still quite hot this evening,I thought it might have cooled down. Times like this when I wish I had a garden.

Wordly walks

by lyndlj @ 2006-07-15 - 09:23:43

I came into this world,quietly,slipping in three months too early,eyes apparently open wide already observing. Not making a sound untill some rather cruel,I am sure I thought that,person decided to make sure I had a voice. For a very long time thereafter that would be the only time my voice would be heard. Upon catching sight of the 'scrawny bag of bones' ( You are aware of course that this is merely what my Mother told me was said) it was declared that I would last no more than a few hours and I was dumped to one side,in a cot,while they saw to the person that was important. It seems that I have never,right from being born,been the type that does what is expected of them.

My early arrivel was due to Mother deciding that as it was such a lovely drying day she would hang the sheets out in the garden.The Male Parent had put up the washing lines,and in doing so must have forgotten that Mother was only five foot  one,and she consequently could not reach.Being the stubborn type and not wishing to wait untill someone came or even asking someone to lower the lines, she decided she would stand on a kitchen stool of not very stable quality. As she is placing peg in sheet leaning at what was described to me as an alarming angle,The Male Parent appears beyond the garden wall,coming home early as he had forgotten something,it was apparently about ten thirty am. She saw him and waved. Of course the inevitable happened as she was holding pegs in one hand,leaning out,removed the hand that was balancing her to wave and down she went.

We lived at that time in an Army town,they did not have the facilities of a normal town and babies were supposed to arrive when they were supposed to arrive,none of this coming early/late. All was planned in a strictly military fashion. The army hospital could not accomadate her,so off to Southampton she was whisked where,unfortunately, they were in the middle of some kind of epedemic/crisis type thing and the hospital was full to overflowing and patients were on corridors ( things have not changed much have they? ) finally amid flurrys of activity,Male Parent declaring that his wife was not giving birth on a corridor and them deciding she was not going to spontaneously stop her labour,they found a room,and within no more than an hour,there I was.

After hours of being examined by a stream of doctors and nurses,bemused by the scrawny bag of bones that stubbornly refused to give up on the world she had just been ejected into,it was declared that some how I had all the internal organs I should have and they were all in the right places,and I was breathing quite well on my own,but at 3lbs I was far too small to survive and would succumb to some kind of childhood illness within my first few weeks/months.