I am not a wise person, such as a Shayman or a philosopher of repute, I am just a person that has seen much, heard more and thinks far too much and too often for their own good.
When I give 'advice' it is based on my own experiences and what I know of people. I know a lot about people, I have studied them for a long time, there are good and bad and then there are those that people think are good and though they are not really bad they have a very selfish agenda. They go around making people think they are good and it is because they want people to notice them, they want to be liked, and they dont realise that just being themselves would get them that, so they wear a persona and no one gets to know the real person underneath. The person they are afraid to show. It's a shame really because the person inside is usually a really nice person.
I used to think that I had to be this other person for people to notice me, then I realised it didnt matter whether they noticed me or not, I was me, despite other people, or maybe because of, who knows? Being me is a lot more fun than being who others want me to be, it means I can honestly say things and know that it is my words and my thoughts and not an echo of someone else. I live in noones shadow, not any more.
I have this habit of believeing that things will come right, in the end, and often get myself into all sorts of bother before they do, thats me, stumble from one mess to another, but it comes good in the end, sometimes.
It is back to work today, that is going to be fun, probably take me all morning just to read my emails 
Have a good day whatever you are doing
Catch you later ![]()
Doralene
Well I've never been one to pretend to be someone I'm not, but that in itself gets me into a lot of trouble. I'm slightly opinionated, lol.
But yes, I too stumble from one mess to the next, so I totally understand hun.