I am not a judgemental person(maybe the mental bit ) I dont sit on a lofty moral high ground and look down upon others and make judgements about them.

It used to make me laugh when my Mother judged the neighbours and their morals or lack of them, mainly because of what she did and what she thought no one else knew.

Making judgements requires knowledge, at least that is my belief, to make a sound judgement about anything you need to know about the way it works, what it does etc etc, so how can you make a judgement about a person unless you actually know that person?

I am neither an Angel (despite my profile pic) nor a Devil (Again despite the pic) I am neither good nor bad, I'm a sort of inbetween. I have done things to survive that others may have shied away from, but it doesn't make me bad because I didn't hurt anyone by doing them. I have helped others in whatever ways I can, but it doesn't make me exceptionally good as I usually get something out of it even if it is only a feeling of satisfaction that someone else can sleep at night.

I am Empathic inasmuch as I can feel the pain of others, again that doesn't make me good, because I haven't always helped them.

I am just me, just average in looks and intelligence, trying to live my life the best I can and doing whatever as I walk along that path.

So it is irksome when I am judged by others that know nothing about me, my life, or my situation. When they say you must have been this or that when you were younger, why? because I dont fall inside your neat little box of assumptions? Because I dont answer your questions in the manner you wish, because I am independent of others?

You see what I know is this, you wouldn't like what I had to say about my life when I was young, you would shy away, you would stop listening, you would make sympathetic cooing noises and treat me like an imbecile, you would then go out and tell all your friends I was a freak! So go away and stop bothering me I have better things to do than listen to you telling me what you think because honestly, it bothers me not, go get a life and stop trying to pry into mine!

There I feel better now.

good morning my dear friends, hope you all have a great day, I have to go to work now xxxx